Astraea Bella, LCSW
Psychotherapy

Sexual Healing

A Journey to Pleasure and Wholeness

Eros is the energy of love, sexuality, and the creative pulse of life.

It’s one of the most profound forces we experience as humans—a source of deep pleasure, pain, or often a complex mix of both.

Cultural, religious, family, and social repression—combined with centuries of shame, limiting gender roles, romantic myths, and unhealed sexuality trauma—make challenges in this realm nearly universal.

And yet, it is your birthright to discover who you are as an erotic being.

I offer a safe, respectful, and educated space where you can have open, honest, and vulnerable conversations about your sexuality.

Start the conversation that changes everything.

Let’s Explore What’s Possible

Questions We Can Explore Together

  1. Who are you as a sexual being beneath your social conditioning?
  2. What conditions of honesty, safety, and fairness do you need to express your sexuality?
  3. How can you live in your body in ways that reflect your true nature?
  4. How can you know which attractions to follow and which to refrain from?
  5. How can you practice desire-based consent that is mutually pleasurable?
  6. How can you experience intimacy, touch, affection, sensuality, and sexuality on your terms?
  7. Where do you authentically land on the spectrums of gender, sexual orientation, power dynamics, erotic expression, and relationship style?
  1. How can you move through reluctance to live in your body?
  2. How can you experience healthy sexuality after childhood neglect and/or abuse?
  3. How can you experience healthy sexuality after religious oppression and/or abuse?
  4. How can you experience healthy sexuality after sexual abuse or incest?
  5. How can you experience healthy sexuality after gender and/or racial oppression?
  6. How can you experience sexual pleasure free from shame?
  7. How can you reclaim the fundamental goodness of your sexuality?

Healing Eros, Reclaiming Your Life Force

I guide you through the twists and turns of this rich and complex territory.

By healing your wounds, exploring your taboos, and opening to your passion, you can learn to experience true fulfillment in this life-giving realm.

As you heal, learn, and grow, you’ll discover that the parts of your sexuality you once believed were the least acceptable, lovable, or desirable can become your most potent sources of pleasure, self-acceptance, and aliveness.

Whether single or partnered, healing Eros is a journey home to yourself.

I practice on the traditional, unceded lands of the Lenape (Brooklyn, NY) and the Chochenyo Ohlone (Berkeley, CA) peoples. I honor the enduring presence and wisdom of Indigenous communities—past, present, and future—and acknowledge that these lands were taken through colonization and genocide.

As a therapist committed to healing and liberation, I recognize that my work exists within systems shaped by white supremacy, settler colonialism, slavery, war, displacement, and racial violence. I stand in solidarity with Black, Indigenous, Latinx, Asian, Middle Eastern, Jewish, immigrant, and all culturally marginalized communities impacted by these legacies.

Personal and collective healing are inseparable. Naming these truths is one way I honor our interdependence and the histories that shape us. May this acknowledgment move us toward deeper responsibility, repair, and relationship—with land, ancestors, and one another. May we reclaim our interconnectedness and create a more just and beautiful world together.

Your Eros is your birthright. Let’s collaborate to help you reclaim it.

Say Yes